What is Do With?

Three words for who holds the power

The same piece of work can be done three very different ways. The difference is not how much people are asked - it is how much they can change. Watch the two circles move.

Power moves this way

Do To

We decided what you need.

Done to people. No say, often no warning.

Do For

We'll do it on your behalf.

Well meant. Still decided somewhere else.

We are here

Do With

Power is shared. Influence, not consultation.

Two equals. The overlap is where decisions are made.

We are focused on Do With - because it is the honest step from where most of us actually are.

And people are already working this way

Do With is a genuine shift, not a softer word for consultation: shared power means a community can change the answer, and can say no. It is also real today for organisations that currently do things to and for people - it asks them to move one step, not to reinvent themselves.

Across public services many people are already finding better ways to work with individuals and communities. The problem is rarely the practice. It is that the wider systems around them too often refuse to follow their lead. That is what this movement exists to change.

How you tell the difference

Consultation looks like this

  • The options are already drawn up.
  • People are asked which one they prefer.
  • The timetable is set by the organisation.
  • "No" is feedback, and the plan proceeds.
  • Findings are reported back, sometimes.

Do With looks like this

  • People are in the room before the options exist.
  • The problem itself is up for debate, not just the answer.
  • The timetable can move because people need it to.
  • "No" stops it, or changes it.
  • Who decided what, and why, is visible to everyone.

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